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THE GRAND WALL

“Are you proud of your grandchildren?” This was a question I was asked as part of doing a “story a week” presentation about events in my life from childhood to adulthood. The following is my response, which is story #47 of 50.

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Yes, I am very proud of my grandchildren. I am so proud of them that I created something to honor them—something that reminds me of each one of them every day. My creation isn’t as awesome as developing a vaccine for the COVID-19 virus or riding on the first American made Spacex rocket that launched two American astronauts to the International Space Station on (5/30/2020), which, by the way, is the first manned launch from American soil in nine years.

My creation is simple, but it symbolizes some of the many blessings God has bestowed upon me throughout my life. The subject matter of the following may not impress anyone who takes time to read it, but I assure you, it means more to me than you can possibly imagine. It represents memories from a past once lived and inspires hope for futures yet to unfold.

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I designed and built a perimeter wall in my backyard in 2008. It consists of concrete block and wooden slats. Kathy and I planted Carolina Jasmine on alternating sections of the wall which provides a softness contrast to the harshness of the concrete block and the aging beauty of the wooden slats.

The final touch for The Grand Wall was when I placed a simple-metal-frame figure of each of my five grandchildren on separate panels of the wall. Those figures symbolize that I think each grandchild is a special blessing to me—they are all different and special to me in their own way.

These symbols of my grandchildren greet me each day, which warms my heart tremendously. You see, I spent many wonderful days in my backyard playing with my grandchildren. From our days playing games such as kickball, dodgeball, “tag-you’re it” to practicing baseball, I felt a joy that no words can effectively describe. I didn’t realize it at the time, but we were creating memories that I would cherish in the final stages of my life—the days when the laughter of children with their smiling faces would no longer physically grace my backyard.

As time passed, my five grandchildren grew up in a flash. They rarely come to my house or play in my backyard anymore. They have moved on with their lives and no longer have time to spend with their Big Tom—me.

It saddens me when I look at THE GRAND WALL and see their images, but no longer hear their laughter or voices filling the air around me. I guess that’s what memories are for—to make you smile as you remember what was, but no longer is. There is no doubt that I enjoyed each grandchild in real-time and feel blessed to have many good memories of what once was. It is the memories that must sustain me and fill the void of their absence in the final days of my life.

Now, allow me to introduce those special grandchildren who brought me great joy and made me smile many times. I’ll present them in the order in which they came into my life.

As each grandchild pursues their dreams in life, I wish them the very best. I pray they find their God-given talents and fulfill His purpose for their lives. That would be a wonderful blessing for each of them. So, my advice to each grandchild is to set your goals high and always give your best. If you choose to do this, you will succeed!

Enjoy every minute of your journey through life. There will be ups and downs, but don’t you ever give up! Pursue your dreams and make them come true!

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As I typed this story, I was watching the riots that were taking place in America on 5/30/2020. Looting, burning down buildings that housed businesses of people hurt by the 2020 pandemic filled the screen. I watched the news broadcasts in disbelief. How could Americans be acting this way?! It’s a very sad night and breaks my heart.

I can’t help but wonder what the world will be like for my grandchildren in their future. I pray that God will hold them in the palms of His hands and allow them to live a full and productive life with liberty and justice for all.

May God bless America and bring peace to a nation in turmoil. This I pray from the bottom of my heart… Amen!

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Tom Tatum – Author 2020

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TEAR UPON YOUR CHEEK

                                   

TEAR UPON YOUR CHEEK

                                       

I see the tear upon your cheek,

But I know not what made you weep.

I pray that joy is the reason why

Each tear is flowing from your eye.

If sadness is the reason you cry,

Let me dry each tear that I see,

And tell you things that make you smile.

For it is then, my world smiles too.

Tom Tatum – Author – 2019

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YOUR CHARACTER YOUR LIFE

As an author of novels, I do what authors do—I create characters and try to weave them into an interesting story. The characters for each story come from my past experiences or are created with personalities that fit the needs of each story.

I want you to give some thought about YOU—your character—your role in life. If I was to include you as a character in my next novel, should I make you the protagonist, antagonist or would you be more comfortable with having a minor, supporting role?

You don’t need to tell me your preferences. I just want you to pause and reflect on YOU—your life—the role you are currently playing.

In real life, you are in control of you. You actually get to choose the role you play. I sincerely hope you are happy with your role in life and don’t want to change anything.

If you’re not satisfied, there’s nothing wrong with making adjustments to change the character you play in the future. After all, isn’t the goal in life to be happy while making others feel good about themselves.

Choose the role you play and give it your best. It’s your life story—make it meaningful! Enjoy every moment you have and have no regrets in the end.

Be a blessing to others in all you do!

Tom Tatum – Author – 2019

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EVERYBODY IS SOMEBODY

Everybody is somebody to

someone somewhere, so when

you find your someone, try

to be a good somebody who

makes their someone feel like

they are somebody special.

You will then become their

special someone and both of

you will find joy somewhere.

Let 2019 be a special year for you to be a good Somebody to Someone Somewhere.

Tom Tatum – 2018

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LIFE’S STORMS AND RAINBOWS

You or someone you know will likely suffer the wrath of storms at some point in life. I’ve experienced them—as a victim and as a witness to the struggles of others. Storms play a significant role in our lives, no matter where we are on our journey.

The storms we experience during the Christmas season tend to magnify the pain of our agony because many of the people we see scurrying about are feeling cheerful and merry, which is wonderful for them, but does little to bring happiness to us.

It’s natural during the midst of our storms that we find it hard to look on the brighter side and realize better days are to come—hopefully, sooner rather than later. However, that’s exactly what we should do because, in addition to the turbulent waters, every storm in life also brings a rainbow—a sign of good that is to come—peace.

Unfortunately, we often miss seeing the rainbow because we are temporarily too focused on the storm and continue to struggle. Most of us often ask, “Why me, Lord?” when we should really be asking, “Lord, how do You want me to use this storm to serve You.”

So, with this in mind, I want to share this RAINBOW BLESSING with each of you—family, friends, connections, and followers in hopes all your storms are small and your rainbows are bright.

RAINBOW BLESSING

May All Your…

…fears fade into courage.

…hopes blossom into reality.

…doubts turn into good results.

…efforts strengthen your faith.

…storms end with rainbows.

…deeds bring others joy.

…efforts give you peace.

…days be bright!

May God bless you and yours with rainbows during this CHRISTmas season and give you a Happy New Year!

Peace,

Tom Tatum – 2017

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